Desperate Deadbeat Fathers

This is for the fellas.



What is it about love that can make some men forsake their children? A man’s desire to be loved is greater than one may think. I have seen men get into relationships with insecure women that are afraid that the child or the child’s mother will take up too much of her man’s time so he decides to focus on building his relationship with the woman instead of the relationship with his children.


I know that at the moment the relationship seems so never ending. Like the world is surrounding your eternal energy and this is a love that a child cannot give to you. What a man doesn’t realize is that the love and respect of your child means far more and will be forever as long as you show that love back. Any guy who does not take care of his child is not a man at all. He is just a shell of a man who wants to pretend he is a man. A man takes care of his children. The blood running through their veins is partially his blood. They exist on this earth because of him. What is so amazing is you have these men with good jobs and circles of friends that think they are this great person as they live this phony life. These are men who people assume is responsible with a good head on their shoulders. But in reality is as horrible; if not worst; than a so called thug on the street. A lot of those so called thugs are better fathers. Crazy.


What is just as bad; is a woman who is so damn desperate to have a man that she sits there knowing this person does nothing for his kids and all she can do is think about how he treats her for the moment. I refuse to date a man that has created a life and doesn’t value the life that he has created. To me that is a soulless person; and a person with no soul can suck yours right out of you. But I guess if you are two soulless individuals it doesn’t really matter much now does it.